How to Meet Someone in Real Life (and Actually Like Who They Are)
If you’re tired of ghosting, situationships, and trying to “perform” your way into love, this is for you. This guide breaks down where to go, what to say, and how to meet emotionally available people in real life (without changing who you are).
💫 Healthy Love: How to Spot and Build Secure Attachment
Discover what secure love really looks like and how to build it. This guide explores the signs of healthy attachment, emotional safety, and practical steps to create lasting connection.
Why an All-Consuming, Passionate “Love” is a One-Way Ticket to Hell
Love isn’t supposed to feel like an anxiety attack in disguise. That all-consuming, make-you-sick passion? That’s not romance—that’s your nervous system throwing up red flags. But society’s been feeding us the lie that love should be overwhelming, messy, and borderline psychotic. Spoiler alert: it shouldn’t. Real love is steady, secure, and doesn’t leave you questioning your worth. If your relationship feels like emotional whiplash, you might be addicted to the chaos. Let’s break down why butterflies are actually a trauma response—not a love story.
🚨 Why You Should Never Get Too Close to a Neighbor, Coworker, or Worker at Your Favorite Spot 🚨
We all love a sense of community—chatting with the neighbor, venting to a coworker, or getting extra-friendly service from our favorite barista. But getting too close? That’s where things get tricky. When relationships with people you have to see go bad, they turn from comforting to complicated—fast. Let’s talk about why setting boundaries with neighbors, coworkers, and service workers can save you from unnecessary drama.
🛑 Ever had a friendship turn messy in one of these situations? Read on!
Why Faking Orgasms is the Biggest Scam You’re Pulling on Yourself
Faking orgasms might feel like an easy way to keep the peace, but the only person losing is you. Why settle for performative pleasure when you could have the real thing? Let’s talk about why faking it is the biggest scam you’re pulling on yourself—and what to do instead.
How to Remove Toxic People and Stand Up for Yourself
Toxic people drain your energy, test your boundaries, and keep you trapped in cycles of guilt and manipulation. Breaking free isn’t just about walking away—it’s about standing firm, saying “no” without guilt, and refusing to let them pull you back in. Ready to reclaim your power? Here’s how to cut them off and never look back.
When Sweetness Turns Sinister: The Psychology Behind Sudden Personality Shifts
At first, they were perfect—thoughtful, affectionate, and kind. Then, without warning, they became cold, manipulative, or even cruel. How does this happen? This article explores the psychology behind sudden personality shifts, from narcissistic abuse cycles to hidden psychological struggles.
Getting Along vs. Feeling Comfortable: The Hidden Truth About Why Some Relationships Just Don’t Work
Just because you get along with someone doesn’t mean you truly feel safe with them. The difference between comfort and connection can make or break a relationship—whether it’s love, friendship, or something in between. If you’re constantly performing instead of existing, is that really closeness? Or just coexisting?
💔 The Science of Love Bombing: How Modern Romance Became a Mind Game
Love is a drug, and your brain is the dealer. This Valentine’s Day, we're exposing the brutal psychology of love addiction—why your brain treats romance like a high, why heartbreak physically hurts, and why we keep chasing the wrong people. Science-backed, brutally honest, and laced with some well-earned cursing, this blog is your guide to breaking the cycle. Ready to detox from love?
Valentine’s Day: A Love Story, A Lie, or a Lesson?
From dopamine highs to heartbreak lows, Valentine’s Day isn’t just about love—it’s science, psychology, and maybe even a little deception. Let’s unravel the truth about modern romance.
Why We Fall for the Wrong People – And Why It Feels So Damn Good (Until It Doesn’t)
They pull away, you chase. They give just enough, you stay. But what if I told you this isn’t love—it’s survival? Let’s unpack the psychology of toxic relationships and why we keep falling for the wrong people.